It Started With a Tweet by Anna Bell
Published: 7th December 2017
Publisher: Bonnier Zaffre
Pages: 416
Available on Kindle
Blurb
Daisy Hobson lives her whole life online. But when her social media obsession causes her to make a catastrophic mistake at work, Daisy finds her life going into free-fall . . .
Her sister Rosie thinks she has the answer to all of Daisy's problems - a digital detox in a remote cottage in Cumbria. Soon, too, Daisy a welcome distraction there in Jack, the rugged man-next-door.
But can Daisy, a London girl, ever really settle into life in a tiny, isolated village?
And, more importantly, can she survive without her phone?
Her sister Rosie thinks she has the answer to all of Daisy's problems - a digital detox in a remote cottage in Cumbria. Soon, too, Daisy a welcome distraction there in Jack, the rugged man-next-door.
But can Daisy, a London girl, ever really settle into life in a tiny, isolated village?
And, more importantly, can she survive without her phone?
Today I'd like to welcome the wonderful Anna Bell to my blog to talk about one aspect of her fabulous new book It Started With A Tweet, out on Thursday. So over to Anna:
Social Media And Me
I adore social media. Being a British expat
living in France I love the fact that I feel connected with the UK with a
simple swipe. From a work perspective I love that I can talk to readers and
other authors. From a personal perspective I love that I can lose hours
watching Instagram stories and finding out everything I ever needed to know in
an instant. But I also hate social
media. I hate the fact that I am always tempted to check my phone. I hate the
fact it can cripple with me anxiety that my life doesn’t look as fun as
everyone else’s. And I hate the fact that I ignore people who are actually in
the room with me to speak to virtual strangers. I’ve started to wonder is it
possible to find a balance between love and hate.
When I started to write my main character Daisy
in my latest novel It Started With a
Tweet, I was laughing at the way she acted when she was forced offline and
the ridiculous lengths she went to find the internet. Only the more I started
to write her, the more I started to see myself in her and I began to notice how
obsessed with my phone I actually am. I started to track the time I spent on it
and was amazed that those little email refreshes here and that scan of Twitter
there actually added up to hours during a day.
Shocked to discover my addiction, I was
determined to do something about it and I ended up doing a three day digital
detox. I prepared myself for tears, tantrums and misery, only they didn’t come.
It was as if I knew that I wasn’t allowed it so I didn’t even reach for it. I
felt freer than I have in a long, long time and for once I didn’t have major
FOMO (fear of missing out) as I wasn’t seeing what everyone else was up to.
Realising that I treated my phone like another person in the room - always giving it priority over everyone and anything else - I decided I needed to change. I’ve
now deleted Facebook off my iPad and phone.
I’ve off all my notifications from all my apps and now the only way to know now
if someone’s got in contact with me is if I check. I no longer jump to the beat
of my phone as it’s pretty much silent all day. I’ve started to tweet more as
I’m trying to be more of an active participant rather than just a reader, in
the hope that I’ll get more out of it. I’m also trying to wean myself off
Instagram stories, as yet with no success - but you’ve got to have one achilles
heel, right?
I think writing the novel was great for me to
remind me that there’s a world away from my phone. Life goes on whether I’m on
or offline and I don’t always have to know what’s happening all the time. My
great love affair with social media isn’t over, but like all love affairs I’m
beginning to think perhaps it’s healthier not to spend all your time together!
Thank you so much Anna for sharing your social media thoughts with us and look out soon for my review of the hilarious It Started With a Tweet.
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